Smokey sez: You can help prevent courting disasters!

Ok, I want to know something; WTF would you do? For those new here, and I get a few of those let me sum it up:

I know a guy, way older then me (I just found out about how much older… it was more then I thought, but I don’t care). I think he might like me, and I definitely like him. We met at his place of work, a bar. I was in there with a gal from the GLBT center, and I pointed him out telling her that he was ‘my type’. The next week, I went back and two guys from the same GLBT center introduced me to him. Then the next day, I went back (promise I’m not an alcoholic), and he wanted a hug. Ok, an innocent hug I thought (that was about 2 weeks ago). Just last weekend it was a small kiss, on my cheek, well more like that lil cheek part next to you lips. After he drove and paid for me and him a bite to eat (we actually met some people from the bar there, so it wasn’t like we were alone for the whole time; but they did leave and we had some time alone). He also gave me 3 forms of contact info (Cell, home, email). I called him day before yesterday (Sunday) and before he hung up he said to email him my email address and call him sometime this week. This is where we are now.

My problem is that I’ve never done anything like this, ever. No dating, no anything of that nature. So what should I do? What I have planned so far, is to actually kiss him back if he goes for the cheek thing again. But other then that, I’m blank. I know that I’ve should of done a whole crap load of other stuff, but I missed out; like saying that I enjoyed eating with him on the phone… What I’m really worried about at the moment is the phone call I told him I would make. I just got a sore throat, that isn’t helping, but I can overcome it. I’m not the phone type of person, hell I’m not the face to face type of person either. I just don’t want him to think that I’m not interested. Also I have no people skills at all, so I have no idea what to say; and long silences scare me. I’m such a nervous wreak.

Any advice would help!

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Oh yea, i keep forgetting to post it; we held hands while talking in his car... ahhhh! Weekdays sux!

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Oh, i'm also going to give you an example how my mind works, since i'm already editing this...

I've been trying to think of reasons that he doesn’t like me... really. I like to play things a lil too safe. I just came up with the perfect thing: He doesn't really like me, He is just paying back either AJ or Alan who might owe the Bi-chick. Ok, the bi-chick works with AJ and Alan, They [AJ & Alan] Both Know Johnnie. The bi-chick is like my gal-pal, AJ and Alan are getting there. So maybe when i told the bi-chick that he was 'my type' she got the ball rolling so to speak. Had AJ and/or Alan force Jhonnie (using blackmail?) into being nice... really nice.

Really, that sounded more plausible in my head. Scouts' Honor! I think i might need to lay down, this headache and lack of sleep is making me think of crazy ass shit...

BUT... if he does like me... AJ and Alan will have temples built by me...