The Other Side Of Me

This Blog is a documentation, a day-to-day account of my coming out process. This is here so people can read, and see where i've made mistakes and where i've made progress, so that during their coming out they can attempt to avoid or emulate those things. It is also here, to show the struggle me and many others have faced, when coming to terms with our sexuality.

9/28/2005

Old School Class

I think that's why i get along with the older generation of people. I like the old ways when it comes to life. Ya' know, when sex was special. Jeremy asked about me & monogamy. I think that's an interesting topic, i need to discuss [i think i've talk about it before, though]. But before i do, i would like to state that this is my view, and i know people that have been in an open relationships before (actually my fav couple in the whole world have an open relationship).

Is monogamy for me? Yes. I believe that if you're special enough for me to sleep with, you at least deserve my respect. Me not giving out sex to everyone that comes around, is basically saying that your worth more. And not only that, but that it the biggest factor. For me, sleeping with someone else, is me committing an act of dis-respect. That isn't the case with everyone, but for me personally it is. And with my policy of "don't disrespect until disrespected" this equals monogamy. But even without that policy i couldn't do it; just not my style.

I'm an old time gal, from a time when that shit didn't happen (trying not to laugh). I don't think anyone is wrong for doing it, it's just not right for me. To me, it's disrespectful; Not only to the person i'm dating but also to myself.

Plus it takes away from the special-ness of sex.

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